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Why do beautiful women go for jerks? Everyday, you see it. You wonder why, what does she see in him. We ask our selfs this question every time we see it. Why do the most beautiful women always go for the jerks? The answer is quiet simple. They have something that you do not. That special thing they have may be limited, yet it is enough for them to have success. In the end, he never ends up keeping her. Only moving onto the next fulfilling relationship and she is left heart broken. The cycle of unhappiness continues. So what exactly does the Jerk do correctly? The jerk is able to show a few alpha male qualities. Non-Neediness, Dominance, he values himself.

We are only attracted to those who we view as equal or greater than value to us. The jerk is able to create attraction by over inflating himself and bringing those down around him. This is unhealthy. He keeps the girl around by making her feel like she can't get anyone else because her value is shot down so low and he over inflates his own.

Dominance, a quality that the jerk does share with the Alpha Male. The jerk displays dominance because he views women as nothing more than shit. A piece of ass. Since he feels he is so much better than them he is able to conquer them easily and not care. Dominance and a certain level of aggression is an attractive trait that he does possess. It is positive because it shows strong leadership in hard times and his ability to protect her.

Non-Neediness, one of the last main and few qualities that the jerk does share with the Alpha Male. The Alpha Male doesn't need to beg or ask for anything from the girl. He knows he can already get it, so it is not THAT big of a deal. The jerk just doesn't care as well. The beta never gets anything so he is always begging for it. So the more the Alpha and the jerk get the less they beg and thus the more they get. While the less the beta gets the more he is desperate and begs for scraps or what ever he can get. This behavior as we all know is unattractive. So the Alpha and the Jerk are in positive reinforcing cycles of getting laid, while the beta is stuck in a downward helpless spiral of misery and masturbation.

Self-Value, both the Alpha male and jerk have a sense of there own value. The Alpha knows who he is, and where he stands. He is a man who stands with confidence. This is a very attractive trait. The jerk has an over inflated sense of self value. He thinks that he is "the shit" and that he is better than everyone else. Since attraction is created by having an equal or higher value to someone else, he manages to create attraction in an unhealthy way by putting others down in relation to him to create the difference in values. This is why the jerk manages to get the girl. The downside for him is that the girl will eventually catch on, and turn out to hate him. He loses in the end. Mean while the beta down plays himself and doesn't know or have any value to himself. He lifts up and worships the ground that hot women walk on. He lowers his value so low, he never has a chance. What the Alpha male has that the beta does not is the sense of value and he knows what he is worth to other people. Unlike the jerk he is able to keep what ever girl he wants for as long as he wants to. When they leave each other, he still has the option of dating her friends. While the jerk is hated by all.

Author - Big Q

Go on then, tell me the story...
You've just hit the clubs and met up with a few friends. One face, however, is new to you and it is the most beutiful thing you have ever laid your eyes on. "Jane, meet Tom" says a voice from your best buddy.
After being introduced to this girl you find it much easier to talk. You spend all night with her and when you head home you make a date to hang out the next day.

So tomorrow comes and you go and meet Jane, although your quite off tone with the conversation. You thought you'd scored with the girl of your dreams and whilst she talks away about her current guy troubles and subtly rejects any kind of flirting you attempt to make you realize that this isn't a date, but more like a trip to the bowling alley with your buddies on a Wednesday night.
Feeling down and rejected, you head home, but you make countless other dates to try and score with Jane, all in vein of course and the real deal really hits home when she says she is glad to have you as a friend. But you can't get Jane off your mind. You still want her. But you don't know how to get her. I do. Read on...

What I am about to tell you will go against every single thing your mom, dad, grandparents, luckless-with-girls friends and Disney have ever told you. To get a relationship with Jane you need to IGNORE her. Yes, you read that correctly. Let me break it down for you...

First of all reverse the situation. Your hanging out with Jane, having fun, just kicking it back like you do, then when you ring to make another date theres no answer. No biggie you think. You message her on myspace. No reply, even though she's online. You text, again no reply. She's visibly online on MSN but still doesn't reply to your messages. This drives you absolutely INSANE. Why is she ignoring you!? The next day you see her out, you say "hi Jane". She looks at you and walks past. This starts to get on your nerves. You feel slightly pissed off, but remember the good times you had together. You think back to those, just to double check you didn't say or do anything rash.
Then you see Jane out with another guy and a few days after out with a different guy. This plays on your mind. Does Jane not want you anymore now she has new guys to hang out with? She never touched or kissed you like she was with those guys? What do they have that you don't? After a couple of weeks of COMPLETELY ignoring her, start talking, but very limited. You know the stuff, one word, I don't give a shit typed answers. This shows that your still about on the scene.

Believe it or not guys, girls LOVE a man that is in demand. It gives them a sence of pride and victory to know they have got something that other women want. So step one is ignore her for a month or two. Step two and step 3 go hand in hand. First of all GET SOME GAME. Read the Crash Course in Seduction by The Inner Circle, learn the basics of how to attract women, implement this into your daily lifestyle. You need to grow some balls, take a long hard look at yourself and change yourself for the better. Second of all MEET NEW WOMEN. Without rubbing it in her face, let Jane see you with other women, other options. Your ignoring her plus her seeing the new, more attractive, more confident you with other women will drive her absolutely crazy.

So your confident, you've got some game, you've got some girls. If you still actually want to hook up with Jane now you have these options of other girls, give her a call. Arrange to meet and play your game. If you don't want to hook up with Jane, arrange to meet and play your game. If you show disinterest on this date she'll probably just jump all over you anyway!

Author - YoungCasual's

www.TheSeductionBox.com

Tired of women telling you to "get lost" and treating you like a loser, whilse they melt and swoon over some other guy who just seems to have something that you don't have?

Truth be told, I used to be just like that first guy. All of us at The Inner Circle were, at some point or other, just like him.

In fact, most of the men on this planet are like that guy.

Why is this? It's not really anyone's fault, it's more just the social climate that we live in.

This is a climate where we are taught from a very young age to "respect" women in a way which TURNS THEM OFF.

We are taught to treat women the way they want to be treated, and not the way that they NEED to be treated.

Quite simply, masculinity in men has been in a steady decline since the sexual revolution of the 1960's.

In my grandfather's day (in other words, WHEN MEN WERE MEN) they knew how to treat a woman properly. But that age is long gone.

But there are still a few men who know "what's up". They know how to treat a woman in a way which really turns her on.

These guys are known as "Jerks" and "Assholes" by the men who are out of the loop. They know (consciously or subconsciously) that what really turns a woman on is not a man's looks, but his PERSONALITY.

Ever seen a woman approach or be receptive to a guy who looked like a model, but become turned off after a few minutes because he was so boring and dull? Case-in-point.

The simple difference between "Jerks"and you is that Jerks value themselves highly and are not pushovers. Women pick up on this, and are attracted to him because he is seen as "wild" and "out of control".

But you may say "I don't want to treat women like shit!"

The good news is, you can transcend what these types of men do, and enter a whole new level of attractiveness.

There is a right way to treat a woman, and it DOESN'T involve physical or emotional abuse.

There are in fact three levels of men on the attraction scale.

At the bottom are what women refer to as losers, weridos, creeps, and bores. They are known in the Seduction Community as "AFCS".

In the middle are "Jerks" and "Assholes". They know how to push a few of a woman's buttons, but not all. They do it but they don't know why it works, and often their relationships are tumultuous and unstable.

At the top, you have men who know what's up, have their life in order, know how to push ALL of a woman's buttons, know what to do and when, and know WHY it works. These are commonly known as "Alpha Males".

The Inner Circle has created a program that shows you how to become an Alpha Male, whicb is more advanced than anything being offered by the rest of the seduction community. It is so groundbreaking that it heralds a new step in the evolution of man.

But before you move on to this advanced level of study, we need to bring you up to speed on the basics. Our "Crash Course" in seduction covers all the topics mentioned in this article, plus much much more. And we are giving it away for FREE!

Our material is so good that we are willing to give you a free book which is comparable to the expensive products already on the market, just so that you can understand our more advanced work. And once you have absorbed all this information, be sure to pick up a copy of "The New Breed", which explains the advanced tactics necessary to stay at the cutting edge of the dating world. this is the only sure-fire way to stay ahead of the pack!

Author - Dude

Fear of rejection is extremely common among men. When guys first start to learn the art of seduction they often struggle for months or even years to overcome this debilitating mental state.

There are many many theories as to why men experience this emotion, and many more theories explaining how you can overcome it. From hypnosis to NLP to walking down the street in a clown outfit!

While these may help, they do not solve the inner problem, which is a feeling of lack of deservedness and self-worth.

Those other "surface cures" do not address the core issue. for example, someone who experiences stage fright can overcome this fear through repeated exposure to the fear, ie going out on stage and performing. But quite often rock stars who go nuts on stage are very shy socially. Why? Because they have conquered one "surface fear" but havce not addressed the underlying root cause. I remember hearing once that a very famous rock star (who has had more groupies than I've had hot dinners) was once quoted as saying that he would still not be able to approach a women in a bar who he didn't know.

So if your goal is to overcome your fear of rejection (as well as all the other fears and phobias in your life) it makes sense to address the underlying cause so that you make lasting, permanent change. Right?

This is what the Seduction Community refers to as "Inner Game". Some gurus advocate a purely inner game approach (ie "natural game") while others favour a more structured and memorised approach (ie "routine-based game"). Neither approach is a complete system. Why not have the best of both worlds?

The first step to curing your fear of rejection is simply to become more social and outgoing. And to practice, practice, practice! Practice makes perfect!

This first step will help, but in order to achieve complete mastery of inner game you will need to have a guided approach from others who have already traversed the same path. This is where The Inner Circle comes in. We have created a cutting-edge comprehensive program which deals with destroying fear of rejection and much much more!

But before you move on to this advanced level of study, we need to bring you up to speed on the basics. Our "Crash Course" in seduction covers all the topics mentioned in this article, plus much much more. And we are giving it away for FREE!

Our material is so good that we are willing to give you a free book which is comparable to the expensive products already on the market, just so that you can understand our more advanced work. And once you have absorbed all this information, be sure to pick up a copy of "The New Breed", which explains the advanced tactics necessary to stay at the cutting edge of the dating world. this is the only sure-fire way to stay ahead of the pack!

Author - Dude

Ah, getting a girl’s number! One of the oldest tricks in the book, every guy in the world has tried to get a girl’s number at one time in his life. There have been countless conversations in bars between guys trying to do it and countless dollars spent by frustrated men looking for how to do it. Luckily, all of the information you will ever need to know to get a girl’s number is in this step-by-step guide, for free! We’ve done the work for you and separated it into five easy steps that will work for anyone. Getting a girl’s number is just the first step out of many on the road to a successful hook-up or relationship, though, but it all starts here. You’ve got to walk before you can run and you’ve got to know how to approach and get a number before you get laid. Learn the basics here and reap the rewards later!

1. Set Yourself Straight

There is an old saying that goes, “Failing to prepare is preparing to fail.” Set yourself up for success and don’t fall behind before you even start talking to the girls. The most important thing for you to have straight is your mindset. You can’t fake this part, as it shows in your actions. Don’t try and think like an alpha male, be an alpha male! Assume that the girl wants you more than anything and that she’s begging you to approach. Secondly, have fun and enjoy yourself! If you’re stressed, you will never succeed. Don’t be focused on whether or not she will like you, focus on whether or not you will like her! Putting her on a pedestal in your mind will give yourself a huge mental roadblock before you even begin talking to her. If she knows that you’re obsessing over her, she’ll figure that if she can get you drooling over her, she can at least get someone much better interested! Place value on yourself above everything else, for you are the important one. There are millions of women out there better than the one you’re going to talk to, but there will only ever be one you! You should be the one on your pedestal, not her. Once you have your mind right and are ready to have fun, you’ve got all the tools you need for a successful approach!

Always look your best and feel your best. You can’t change your natural appearance, and that doesn’t matter. Work with what you have, because you can clean yourself up and dress nicely. When you look your best, you feel your best. Positive energy is the most important ingredient of a pick-up, so help yourself all you can!

2. Preparation

This is the time for action! Contrary to popular belief, the pick-up starts before you ever approach a woman. When you first spot an attractive woman, you shouldn’t wait to make your move. When you’re first starting out, it’s best to use the “three second rule,” and approach within three seconds of spotting the hottie you’re going to snag. This gives you no time to talk yourself out of the approach and makes it spontaneous, a necessary ingredient for meeting women. Don’t be the guy who follows her around store after store in the mall for three hours, this will only get you picked-up on her creep radar!

It all begins when you spot the woman. When you see her, start warming her up to your approach immediately! The two most important things to do in this stage are to smile and make eye contact! When someone smiles at you, you hardly ever fail to smile back. A smile always makes anyone’s day better, so give her a grin! This breaks the ice perfectly and she is naturally inclined to respond positively to you. While you’re smiling, be sure and make eye contact with the girl of your choice. If she holds the eye contact, it’s a sure sign that she is interested! Not making eye contact before (and during) your approach is a sign of insecurity. Own the set and take what’s yours!

3. Initiate

Once you’ve successfully broken the non-verbal ice, it’s time to finally approach. This is where almost all men have a horrible time and make most of their mistakes. Guys come to websites by the millions every day looking for the one “Holy Grail” opener that will melt any woman’s heart and panties the instant you meet them. Needless to say, they’re only wasting their time and setting themselves up for disappointment, because they don’t know a big secret. As a matter of fact, we’ll even let you in on this secret: the opener you use doesn’t matter at all! Over 90% of communication is non-verbal, your body language, the way you say things, and the confidence behind the words you speak are infinitely more important than the words themselves. The only purpose of an opener is to get your foot into the door and start a conversation. As far as I’m concerned, there are only two openers, ones that get you into a conversation and ones that don’t. Don’t use a corny pick-up line, keep things simple! There is no opener that will win you a girl by itself, but stupid things get you blown out immediately. Walk confidently, speak loudly, and game with conviction! This will get you farther than any line in the history of the universe. Use a time constraint when you begin talking to the girl, as you don’t want her to think that you’re going to hang around bugging her forever (there’s an example of this below).

There are many openers, choose whatever you feel works best with you:

Opinion Openers- Ask a girl’s opinion on something to get you into conversation.

Example: “Hey! I’ve gotta get going quick, but I need a female’s opinion on something. I’m buying a gift for my sister’s birthday party; do women hate gift cards as much as men do?”

Basic Openers- Introduce yourself to her and make a funny observation on the surroundings, this is the most quick and to the point method of initiating conversation.

Example: “Hey! Did you see that guy’s rainbow shirt?! I’ll have to use you as my guide dog, since I’ve gone blind!”

When opening, always enter the set with a higher energy level than it is already at. Be enthusiastic, no one likes a boring dude!

4. Substance

This is where you actually talk with a girl and the group she is in. If she’s in a group, don’t ignore them. In fact, give more attention to the girl’s friends than the actual girl that you’re interested in. Without the approval of her friends, you’ll get nowhere. Don’t stress out about the actual conversation. Women think emotionally, unlike men. They respond to feelings. Women become attracted to a man because of how he makes her feel, not what he says to her. Focus the conversation on the woman, since girls love to talk, this should be no problem! Pick out key words out of her statements and use these to branch off to other topics when you’re out of things to say. Don’t talk badly about yourself or your job and never discuss problems with her.

Display strong body language; keep your hands out of your pockets at all times! The most important thing to remember is that you need to be playful! Women love a guy who is at ease around them and who is able to make them smile and enjoy themselves. Don’t be afraid to touch her either; play around with her and push her when she says something stupid, or tap her on arm while you’re making gestures that go along with conversation. Playful flirting like this is a must!

5. Closing

Once you’ve opened, gained the approval of her friends, and have talked with the woman for a few minutes, she will be interested and attracted to you if you’ve done everything right to this point. When she starts laughing, playfully touching you back, and doing stuff like playing with her hair or asking questions about you, it’s time to make your move. This is when the woman is into you, so take advantage of your good work! Never leave without attempting to close by either getting a number or arranging a date. You’ve got nothing to lose, and women will give out their number if you seem like a decent guy, as no one can pass complete judgment on a person based on one short conversation.

I’m going to throw a shocking guideline at you now: never ask for a girl’s number! That’s right, I said to never ask for a girl’s number. When you ask, you give her the chance to dismiss you and you put the power in her hands. Instead of asking and surrendering control of the interaction, get the number by TELLING instead of asking. Examples of this are shown below. If you feel that she is interested enough for a date, set on up one the spot before you leave. If you want to get a number and arrange things later, you can do that also. This is the final part of the approach, and the easiest if you’ve done your work so far. Remember, set up a date and get digits in a confident, in-control manner.

Examples:

“I’ve enjoyed our conversation, but I have to go meet some friends. Let’s continue it later. Would you prefer to get coffee or try out the sushi place downtown?”
“It’s been fun talking with you, we should continue this conversation. Put your number in here for me *hand her your phone*. ”

These examples illustrate the right way to close a solid interaction; you’re assuming that she will say yes and not giving her the chance to say no. Women don’t do well with power, so don’t make it hard on them

If you follow those five steps, you’ll emerge with that HB 10’s number nearly every time you approach. No one gets numbers all the time, so don’t be discouraged if you slip up a couple times. Even with perfect game, there are still variables out of your hands. All you can control is yourself, so go out, have a blast, and get some phone numbers! If you need a refresher on the steps and major points, there is a summary below.

Points to Remember:

1. Set Yourself Straight

• Believe in your success
• Look sharp and feel sharp

2. Preparation

• Smile
• Make eye contact

3. Initiation

• Display strong body language, stand straight
• Speak loudly and keep your hands out of your pockets
• Approach, keep the opener simple and start the conversation

4. Substance

• Talk about the woman
• Pick ohe approval of the group
• Flirt put topics to talk about from her comments
• Gain tlayfully, don’t be afraid to make contact and touch the woman

5. Close

• Always attempt to close
• Assume that she’ll say yes
• Go for either a number or a date

Author - GoinPhoenix

http://www.SeductionHallofFame.com

We get asked this question all the time, “What can we do to try to impress a lady?”

The answer is if you try to impress her, you will accomplish the opposite.

The majority of guys that go out to a club try to impress women, and they go out of their way to prove it, acting like dancing monkies with a cup in their hands. This has the same affect on women as the poor beggar in the street who harasses you for money, could you spare some change?

Men have a natural need to impress a lady this hearkens back to the caveman days where a man could impress a woman with his hunting and survival skills, but since she can fend for herself those talents just aren’t warranted in the modern era.

Have you ever said to a lady that you have a good job, make allot of money, or drive a fine car?

Well bragging in that way creates an opposite affect and the person inherently questions the ability or the reason. The trick is to play yourself down when you are on the up.

We call these men who try to impress or brag, try-hards and women will question why they are trying so hard.

What does he have to hide?

Why is he so insecure?

Why does he feel the need to tell me that?

You have to appreciate that women have this frame in their mind at all times: “He will do and say anything to get into my pants.”

Therefore, if you come up juggling your own balls and showing insecurity by overly impressing, she will just reaffirm that phrase in her mind. Can you see how your actions can be counter productive by overtly trying to impress her? Don’t worry as we said this is a natural reaction for men so you are normal for having it, but it is time to join the elite!

The trick is to be that desirable person, and not to try to show that you are. There is a huge difference between the two, one is secure and the other is weak. Time to take off those old shoes that failed to get you to the best places and try on a new pair, which will make traveling to any destination you want easier.

Here are 5 Ways to Exude the Personality of a Man that Impresses Women:

1) Think Fun, Not Outcome!

Most guys get all serious and have tunnel vision as it pertains to attracting a lady, and they can only see the finish line. Murphy’s Law applies with the more you try to pull them the more you are going to push them away. So stop pulling! Have fun and the outcomes will manifest themselves.

2) Befriend Everyone

Guys will focus just on the lady who interests them and then get Cockblocked by other males, or Mother Hens, get in the habit of talking to everyone. Start conversations with the Doormen, talk to people in line, talk to everyone you run into, look around you there are a million specific questions just on the environment around you to ask them? A good place to start is with lone people, as they are most likely waiting for someone, and would appreciate someone to take the awkwardness of being a Wall Flower away by giving them something to do.

3) Don’t Be Desperate

Don’t cling onto every person you meet and hang around until they run for cover. If you are in a club then you will most likely run into them again, be strong cut them lose and they will be even happier to see you the next time. Women also have a frame of mind that they won’t be able to get rid of you, if you walk away you will surprise them.

4) Don’t Be Afraid of Groups

Allot of men stay away from groups whether they are all female or mixed with both sexes for fear of failure, the truth is actually The Opposite. Opening groups is easier and speeds up your ability to meet a large amount of people. Women will be very impressed if when you are walking around a club allot of people say Hi, or respond to you. This is what we call Social Status, and your value will go through the roof if you have it.

5) Dress to Impress Yourself

If you don’t feel like a million bucks when you walk out the door then it will show, and your confidence will be affected by it. Now you don’t have to pay a million dollars for an outfit, even one of those tacky polyester suits from the 70’s will work as long as you feel like a world-beater in it.

Now if you would like more specifics on how to exactly attract the women you want, no need to fret we have you covered!

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Author - Orlando Mac

http://www.SeductionHallofFame.com

So your new to the game and you've just got enough game to approach, get a number, get a date and then get her into a relationship, or you've done the previous by pure luck, whatever. The point is your now in a long term relationship with a women and your watching her every move in a stalkerish form to make sure you arn't getting your ass two-timed by your new found ladyfriend. Don't think I haven't seen you in your Inspector-Gadget anorack, bucket hat and sunglasses with your binoculars behind the bush at the back of the grocery store, because I have. Go home now, open your laptop and read this article and i'll guide you through it...

First off slap yourself around the face. What the hell are you doing? What good will stalking her do? Leave her alone. Your in a long term relationship with this women, any other guy she comes into contact with isn't. Your winning already! Girls don't just get into a relationship with every average-joe they meet. You've earnt that title, so remember this every time you want to go on a stalking mission.

Secondly, ask yourself WHY you are jelous. What makes you jelous? When you see your girl talking to another guy? Chances are at that very minute she is either blowing him off or he's just a friend. If he's just a friend she will more than likely introduce you to elevate her status and show you off.

Thirdly there is always the favourite option of playing her at her own game and making her jelous! Talk to some of your girl 'friends'. Believe it or not if girls like a guy they will get jelous as well! They arn't going to end a relationship with a guy because they are jelous, it will only increase her attraction for you! So their are two benefits from this method. You arn't jelous and she wants you that extra bit more!

It doesn't even have to be a friend you approach, it can be any girl Once your girl is hooked on you, even talking to random women and creating initial attraction will make her jelous, you don't even have to close your target with a number close if your the loyal type. But her seeing this from a distance will put her in a position where she feels threatened by another girl. The bolder girl will even come over and introduce herself but you can bet your ass she will be jelous and threatened, otherwise why would she do it?

Think about it. When you are jelous of her talking to other guys, doesn't she look just that little bit better in your eyes? Do you want nothing than to get her back in your arms so you can tell her how much she means to you in the hope she doesn't do it again? Corse you do! Because your luckless in love and suffering from what we like to call one-itis! You feel threatened by other guys taking your woman and your hooked on her and only her. Soon this cheeseburger of a feeling will go away, don't worry! Once you continue to read our advance material and build yourself an indestructable inner-game you will be humoured, rather than jelous, because you will know damn well your girl is coming back to you!

Author - YoungCasual's

www.TheSeductionBox.com

Have you ever had a great time chatting with a date, just to have her pull away when you went in for the kiss?

Do women regularly see you as more of a friend, than a lover?

Have you heard the dreaded, “Let’s just be friends?

Do you have trouble with building intimacy with others?

If you answered yes for any or all of the above questions than you are normal, all men at some point have difficulties with any or all of the above.

Why is this?

Well on the way to building rapport men stray away from contact as to not scare their prey off, what they accomplish is the opposite!

Touch is extremely important, humans from an early age exhibit the need for physical contact. Studies from orphanages show that without contact babies will lose weight, get sick, and some even died from a lack of personal contact. Children even will naturally seek out close contact and if they don’t it signifies a major problem. Healthy families have a great deal of closeness with hugs and kisses, which fosters a positive loving outlook on life.

Personal relationships that go bad have an ever-decreasing amount of contact, which results in a break-up, the same is true at the beginning of a relationship where not enough contact is established. It has also been clinically proven that when we are touched, hormones are released (I will not bore you with the scientific terms, just know that the affect is even more profound on women than it is for men). Even as adults we need, loving touch to function properly, and to be healthy or else we start to exhibit mental health traumas.

Here is an important fact for all you prostars: With a consistent elevation in the frequency and intimacy of the contact, sexual arousal will be reached in women.

What does that mean?

If you start with light grazing sensations slowly and work your way up into touch that is more intimate, with more frequent touches as well as intensity it will lead to arousal, which is why women love foreplay. This crescendo of touch leads to arousal, foreplay, intercourse, and culminates in climax. Most men rush through the foreplay and get straight into the hardcore action, they act similarly at the beginning of a relationship by not creating comfort through touch before getting intimate with a kiss. Now no man would ever start their beloved car without engine oil to lubricate the motor, yet they try to cold start women all the time.

Truth is that men need sex to be intimate and women need to be intimate to have sex, can you see how these two opposites clash.

If that is the case you might think, “So how do I get intimacy with women?”

The answer is through premeditated touch. It won’t feel comfortable for you at first because it is not in your nature, but it is a requirement from women and if you can’t establish that comfort zone through touch you will fail in every attempt to escalate with her.

There is a natural progression of intimacy for women that we will teach you, and if you skip a step, it will result in failure. Women get an uneasy feeling every time a man jumps ahead of the natural progression that they require.

It is an easy mistake to make since men are sociologically programmed opposite to women.

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In life, to say that where we are today was a pure result of only you making it there by yourself is completely false.  In reality, we rarely if ever accomplish anything alone.  This places a big emphasis on teamwork.  Well how will team work help you get laid?  Good question deserving a very enlightening answer.

You should choose to align yourself with people who will help further you, they are not perfect either, and you will help better them.  You give to each other, to only accelerate each others lives.  Alone you will do alright, together you will become victorious!

An example of this would be, if you have trouble talking with women, seek friends that are very good at talking with girls.  Hang out with them more, in return give back to them.  You all help each other out.  In time you will learn to pick up on what they do in real life, and build off there natural skill set.  If they need help in something that you are good at, teach them in return.  Network them with other people you know if you can’t help them with it.  By doing this you will create a huge network all around you of everything you will ever need along with an elite group of friends to push you all forward to become as successful as possible.

Say for example you have NO idea how to dress, your style is off.  You can’t match.  If one of your friends is a metro sexual or is stereotypically gay and is really good with clothing, have them take you shopping.  You are not going to believe the end results.  Being approached and complimented on your new look.  That is not to say that looks are an all making factor when it comes to seduction, how ever it definitely does help you out a lot, how you take care of yourself.

If you are bad at dancing, make friends with the people who are very good at it, and the girls are all over them at the clubs.  Chances are, they will teach you and you will learn to pick up that skill set as well.  You will become the guy that all the girls want to dance with.  The very good news is, that you have already started this process whether you know it or not.  You went out of your way to find this information to better yourself, so you are starting part of your elite group already.  This is your information source.

A very important part of this is to give back what you take.  Don’t leach off of people.  Yes it will work for the time being, but in the end you will not be as successful as you could have been.  Give back to them when you can.  If for example your gay friend is really good with looking sharp but doesn’t know how to work out, and you are, take him to the gym and teach him how to get a great body like you.  Too many men are homophobic, you shouldn’t be.  Here is one great perk of having a few gay friends.  Keep you on you’re a game for style, and they usually have a lot of hot female friends.  Anytime you come across another gay guy, set him up with your other ones.  When ever your gay friends come across some hot girls, they’ll set you up with them.  You all help each other out and make each other more successful.  It will be like pimpin’ in over time with out even trying.

When you meet up with a girl and you get in good with her and establish good comfort, have her take her hottest single friend out for your friend, and set them up on a double date.  Ask your friends to do the same for you.  I can guarantee that by doing this with each other will EXSPLODE your dating and sex lives.

The moral of the lesson is to network.  Help your friends out and they will help you.  Do not be afraid to ask for help if you need it.  Raise your friend’s values, and it will raise yours as well by association.

Best of Luck in the Field,
Yours Truly
~Big Q

People, when looked at as a whole... are good natured. They avoid being honest and try not to be mean to others simply because most want to avoid conflicts. Why? Simple, because they are afraid of conflict... it's for this very reason that you are scared of rejection... and it is also the reason why you shouldn't be! Did I lose ya? Let me explain : You are afraid to approach women because you don't want to put yourself in a situation in which you will make a mistake that will lead you into a conflict of interest with the girl and she will turn you down. On the other hand... since about 9 out of 10 people are scared of conflict just like you, you have a 90% chance that the girl you are approaching is afraid of conflict as well... which means that she will do almost anything in her power to avoid getting in a conflict with you. Think about it, she has no idea who you are and what kind of guy you are... she does not know that you won't get pissed off and start calling her ugly and other names if she rejects you... so she'll avoid that by all means. How will she avoid that? By either telling you she has a boyfriend or giving you a fake number... and that is the WORST case scenario. Chances are she'll give you a shot just because you had to balls to approach her... even if you stutter the whole time and start sweating like a pig. It's true! Men are natural initiators, we are the sex that have evolved into those that are by the laws of nature supposed to court the women... so we are the ones who need to set everything into motion. I don't care who you are, what you look like or where you came from... if you have a penis then this trait is built into you just like the rest of us, you just need to learn how to control it. You also need to understand that because we possess this trait and women do not (at least not built in like we do), this makes us the dominant sex... and chances are any girl you approach will be more scared and nervous than you. Now think about this : If you approach a girl and she is so nervous that she makes every mistake in the book... forgets what to say, doesn't look you in the eye, and just overall makes a complete fool out of herself... would you forget about her and just walk away even though she is hot? Hell freakin' no you wouldn't! So why would a girl reject you just for making a few mistakes if she thinks your attractive? She won't, period. It's our job as men to choose which women to approach, it's our job to get everything started. If you think that's hard then think about a woman's job... they make the babies! I don't know about you but I'd rather get rejected by every woman on earth than have a nine pound kid pop out my ass. Ok, now pump your brakes and stop for a minute. Think about everything that I just said and let it all soak in, you are gonna need to remember some of that stuff... and if you forget it, come back and read this again. Why do I want you to remember it all? You need to tell yourself those things every day : Most people are scared of conflict... most girls won't reject me because of that... men are natural initiators... that trait is inside of me... if situations were reversed, I wouldn't reject the girl so she probably won't reject me... it's not such a big deal anyway. Remember those highlights and tell them to yourself every day... out loud in front of the mirror if you have to, whatever it takes to program it into your mind and make yourself believe it... because once you believe it all you need to do is think about it before you approach a girl and your mind will be at ease... free for you to use it to pick her up. Ok, now I'm gonna bring it all home with a tip to handle any "I can't think of anything to say" problems you might have... NEVER THINK! Remember just a second ago how I said "all you need to do is think about it before you approach a girl and your mind will be at ease"? Well that's the last thing you should think about... once you've put your mind at ease turn it off and just begin taking action without thinking about it... forget consequences, they don't exist anymore until you've got her number. Thinking is BAD when approaching women, don't think about : What you should say, if she will reject you or not and if she even feels attracted to you... and definitely don't think about your surroundings, forget about the other people near you and worrying if they are looking at you. DON'T THINK. "Well if I'm not supposed to think... then how will I even talk?" Good question... here's how : I'm not telling you to try to block thoughts from entering your mind... that's impossible unless you've been a monk for the past 20 years. I'm simply telling you not to THINK about them once they are in there, and this is how you do that while still being able to talk... ALWAYS say something related to the first thing that pops into your head... say it without thinking about it. If the first thing that pops into your head is "I don't know what to say"... then say just that! Say to her "I don't know what to say, your so hot I can't stop looking at your body" or for a teasing approach "I don't know what to say... I'm still trying to figure out if I want your number or not". If the first thought that enters your mind is "What if she isn't attracted to me?" then go ahead and ask her! Say "Do you find me to be attractive? Because I think your hot and we'd look really good together". Get the idea? It's all about NOT thinking about anything and just acting on impulse. Wanna know a secret? There's no such thing as "the right thing to say" to a girl... you can ask people all day for advice on what you should talk about with women when you approach them and every response you get will be the wrong one... even if it's coming from the mouth of Don Juan or Cassanova themselves. Stop searching for the right thing to say and just talk. The belief that players and other types of ladies men are successful with women because they "say the right things" is a myth... total bullshit... it's non-existant. They get women because nothing is holding them back from simply saying whatever they want, and it's their ability to do this that makes them attractive... not the specific words that come out of their mouth. All of this may sound really complicated right now... but just give it a little while to absorb into your head then come back and read this again, that time you'll be like "Ok, that's not that bad". I'm not going to lie and tell you that this will be the easiest thing you'll ever do... but it won't be the hardest. You want to get over your fear and have the ability to walk up to ANY woman without worries right? Well now you know how. If you enjoyed this article I think that you will love my new book... and to prove it to you I'll even let you take a free peek inside! I've poured years of experience and research into "The Player's Black Book", everything in it I've personally used to pick up girls... so I can guarantee it will work for you too! Click below for your free sneak peek...

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